No matter when, where, or how oral sex takes place, I think it's safe to say that blowjobs are greatly appreciated. Being that you clicked on this article you're likely looking to hone your bj skills. That makes you the real MVP. So, on behalf of every man in the world that loves a great bj, thanks in advance.
The best thing about receiving a great blowjob is to be able to kick back and relax while your partner pleasures you. The men that typically enjoy taking on a more dominant role by thrusting into their partner's mouth while receiving a blowjob may slightly disagree. Regardless, many of the elements of a great blowjob remain the same. These 7 tips will make you a certified head doctor.
1. You don't need to suck.
You're not trying to give his manhood a hickey. Focus more on letting your tongue and lips glide along the penis and the natural suction created by your lips closing around it will create the gentle suction. As a tease, the occasional suck on the head to make that popping sound when it ejects from your mouth can drive a man wild, trust me.
2. Don't be afraid to get sloppy.
Cottonmouth, while you're giving head, is no fun for the giver or the receiver. Remember, it's not supposed to be pretty and forget that you were taught not to play with your food. The situation will get slippery, but saliva is your friend.
3. Mix It up.
Constantly switching up what you're doing is not the answer, but mixing in a variety of stroking motions, sucking, and general combinations that you know he enjoys is key. Here's a tip: keep it wet, and with one hand at the base of his penis and one around the head of his penis use both hands as if you are grinding pepper.
Taking your partner's penis into your mouth as far as you can is a move reserved for professional blowjob artists, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't give it a try. Just be wary of your limitations and don't barf.
5. Have fun with it.
Enjoying giving a blowjob is definitely one of those things that you can't fake. If the giver isn't enjoying it, it will show in the effort given. A half-ass bj is just as bad as no blowjob at all.
6. Oral sex as foreplay has limits.
When giving a blowjob before intercourse, the goal is to get your partner aroused. You don't want to push him too close to climaxing before the real action begins. This is when a nice sensual blowjob should be pulled out of the toolbox. Limit stroking him with your hands in tandem with suction as it is a lethal combination. On the other hand, when the blowjob is strictly for his pleasure, do whatever it takes to make his eyes roll back.
7. Give your partner what he enjoys.
At the end of the day, the most important aspect of a blowjob is pleasing your partner. If he likes something, you will know from his reactions. It's also important to listen to what he tells you makes him feel good and run with it.