When relationships start going downhill they are usually over long before the actual breakup. The people involved can see the signs coming from a mile away, but we typically turn a blind eye to them in the name of love.
For whatever reason, when a man has had enough it's not hard to tell that he is ready to exit stage left. Even when we try to hide how we truly feel some signs still stick out like a sore thumb. Here are seven things that will usually let you know that your man is on the fence about calling it quits. If he's not ready to walk away when you notice these things there is something else seriously wrong.
Fixing problems in the relationship aren't a priority.
At the point when he has already made up his mind that he's ready to walk away from the relationship and there is no use trying to fix things. He'd rather end the relationship and start fresh.
His interest in sex with you declines.
You will notice a significant decline in a man's desire to be intimate with you when he is falling out of love with you. It's possible that he has even begun to look elsewhere for that physical attention.
Spending time with you becomes a chore.
No matter how hectic schedules get, people always manage to make time for the things that are important to them. If he would rather be working or simply doesn't enjoy spending time with you anymore the relationship is really on the rocks. It's just a matter of time before he finds someone else to spend that time with.
He ignores your attempts to reconcile the relationship.
It's too late and he'd rather things stay bad between the two of you because it's easier to walk away from a struggling relationship than one that is getting better.
He no longer wants to intertwine families.
Marriages and committed relationships bring families together. If he no longer wants to be around your family or involve you with his, it's a good sign that he's slowly cutting ties. It could also be that he just doesn't like your family, but if that was the case the disconnect would have already been evident.
He's has lost respect for you as a partner.
Relationships are 50/50. Once he no longer values your opinion, your presence, or your feeling, he's as good as gone. You'll be better off without him at this point.
He doesn't make future plans.
Planning for the future is a good sign that your relationship ins going strong. It shows that the two of you plan on being in each other's life for at least the foreseeable future.